A biological parent who willfully
opts not to be an active participant in caring for their child, though oftentimes expresses negative emotions and/or words to the active parent or even the child for allowing a relative or the child’s step-parent to actively parent that child in their intentional absence. Although the biological parent may provide child support funds, they are typically insufficient; most often court-mandated; and
retrieved through involuntary, automatic garnishments. An individual that fits this description, more oftentimes than not, has
fathered or birthed multiple children by multiple individuals and, generally, neglect all said children at some point during or all of their
adolescence...though expect that they themselves will be afforded the benefit of receiving those neglected children’s
love and respect as if they earned the designation of mother or father when their flawed version of parenting is convenient for them. In summation, an individual who views himself or herself as the most important person in their life, who has
opted to utilize the other parent to fulfill their own obsession with
procreation without regard for the other parent’s or the child’s well-being at any point from the time of conception through the end of their own life.
It’s quite odd that a legal adult be trusted to mentor others’ children provided they are, themselves, a deadbeat.
There are conferences and seminars that teach
financial independence, although someone should teach, ‘What it takes to identify a deadbeat before becoming their victim?’
The Head Men’s Basketball Coach at
Keiser University is a deadbeat.
Oftentimes, deadbeats are manipulative, emotional predators who lack both self-awareness and empathy, as well as any sense of accountability or an obligation to act with integrity. From their perspective, they have the ultimate right to use and mistreat their targets as they please given those targeted are simply a
means to an end which benefits them. Ends come in the form of material gifts, money, a nicer place to live either free or much cheaper than what they can provide for themselves, and the greatest prize of all: more offspring to purposefully neglect.
