Abbreviated from the word feminine, fem refers to a person on the LGBT spectrum who demonstrates behaviors that are stereotypically associated with women. Most often, these behaviors are exaggerated in an effort to
fetishize femininity. For instance, a fem gay man might wear makeup or use animated
hand gestures. A fem lesbian might make a point to wear dresses or carry a purse.
The use of the fem label may be used within the gay community to insult one's manhood or lack of masculinity.
Antonym (opposite) of the word
masc"Honey, those nails are on point, the face is beat, and the hair is snatched.
Fem queen is
stunting tonight."
"No fats, no
fems, no asians" (derogatory usage)
"So you're lesbians, right? Which one is the
fem and which is the guy?" (unintentionally derogatory usage)
