The wife of the
Firelord.
The last Firelady was
Ilah, passing long before her husband.
Ursa; the wife of Firelord Ozai; was banished from the nation before her husband took office, therefor never became Firelady herself.
The current Firelady is Alisha, the wife of Firelord Zuko. She lives in the Fire Nation palace with him and their three children; son Eric, and daughters Azerai and Zaralya.
The Firelady is a
kind woman, looking after
wounded soldiers of all nations returning home from the
war.