The meaning of
fucktoy when a man calls his woman this, depends on the context in which it's used. Far from demeaning, when said in the throes of passion, it can be a
torrid word of endearment, especially in a
D/s dominant/submissive relationship.
Jay: "Ohhhhhh, you are my Fucktoy, mine to do with as I please!" Jane: "
Ohhhhh God... Say it again ... again ... use me for your pleasure. I love being your Fucktoy.
I want it so bad I can't stand. My pussy is throbbing for you to be
inside me."