It's a popular Nigerian expression for "In the end i did my best". It is often used by Nigerian men with lower sex drive
than their partners (especially when the partner wants sex more often and in a more erotic way)
Although the term gained popularity through a song by Timaya
named "I Can't Kill Myself
" in 2019. As the popularity of the phrase has increased so too has the number of different meanings associated with it.
Bright: My wife complains i don't last longer in bed.
: How long does she expect you keep thrusting?
Bright: An hour or more. I told her i can't coman kill myself
. It's sex not a damn trip to Benin