It's not about the sex
or gender of the person but how they treat you! So, as long as you're getting the love and affection that you need to be happy
in love then it doesn't and/or shouldn't matter what gender is loving you.
Often a term used by bisexuals or those who have no issues with swinging
with the same-sex as long as the loving is good!
i.e. A guy might say to another guy, "I'm just looking for someone to love me (a genderless
statement) because love is love!" The sex
of the person isn't the issue
but how the person is treated as it pertains to being loved!