1. To treat (someone) without due seriousness, especially in a superficially
amorous way.
2. Consider (an idea, movement, proposal, etc) casually or indecisively.
3. Move or handle an object absentmindedly or eat something in an
unenthusiastic or
restrained way.
1. You: Are you even trying?
Me: Not really.
You: Then stop toying with me. It's just cruel.
2.
J.K. Rowling toyed with the idea of
writing a book.
3. She was toying with her food.