It is when two people come back from a bar fairly sauced. The male mandates that the women give him head. In the process of the head-giving, the male vomits on the female but insists that the female continues. Once a nut has been busted in the female's mouth, the male forcibly makes the female leave his residence and yells "Take my trash out."
To cause one's life to be more difficult in any way. Similar to the phrase, "Breaking my Balls". Derived from a quote during Christian Bale's infamous rant.