Define Rather Having Meaning

The act of taking one option over the other without real regard for what the mainstream would consider sound logic, making this act bold and brave. Rather Having is not to be confused with preferring something, which any loser can do.

This is sometimes used among the asexual community expressing that some on the ace spectrum would rather have cake over sex. Choosing to have both have cake and eat it too.

The term you use in an awkward situation

A legendary line originates from the one and only sesh heads Bendviguez and Kamikles. The ting's a mazza!