The fear that upon a break-up/
divorce the other party will use your sexual fantasies and/or tendencies and
divulge them openly to other people or during the course of the divorce process so all things said are maintained in public record. This natural fear of being sexually blackmailed will ultimately keep you from leaving your significant other and you will continue to
live your life as a shell of who you are.
Caleb - "I really want to get a divorce but I'm afraid if I do she will tell everyone that I like
to dress up as 'The Gimp'. It's fucking
sexual blackmail!"
Gabriel - "Yeah man, that sucks......wait you dress up as
The Gimp?"