Trans-Exclusionary Homosexual Male. A perjorative term coined by tumblr user spill-the-gender-tea to mean gay men who don't want to interact with the vagina of a
trans-identified female. A male equivalent of the perjorative term "TERF" or "Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist" that is often thrown at lesbians who don't want to interact with a girldick, (see the "
cotton ceiling").
Has been reclaimed by gay male gender critical/
radfem feminist allies who are proud to be homosexual.
Homophobe: Why are ""
cis"" gay men obsessed with dick???? Why can't TEHMs accept that some men have vaginas???!?!??!
Actual gay male: It's called homosexuality,
my dude