n or v: an
aspect of one person -a
trait, belief, or opinion that leads others to
find him or her unattractive, whether for romantic or friendly relationships.
To influence in a negative way
"the unfluence that lead to Ted being
shunned by
the crowd was his inability to let others speak without interrupting them."
"
The cold sore on her lip unfluenced me from trying to take her home."