Where a woman, to the man's arguably limited perspective, seems both SO generous and yet so
ARBITRARY in her offer, such as to induce mental
meltdown in the man as a
feedback loop he can't process.
-- So he couldn't understand how she was SO
generous and yet so
ARBITRARY in her offer, and this is now his major pre-occupation.
-- Ah, he feels she's a miserly-angel, and now he
worships her.