Where you are able to happily grasp and retain a nice
gal's "upper" hand --- i.e., the one opposite to her "lower" hand from the shoulder that she's lying on --- while
stretched out on your sides at the beach or
spooning her in bed.
Being allowed to gain the upper hand while
spooning with a
nice girl is always a pleasure; just remember to always employ the
wrist-twist compromise to ensure maximum comfort for both of you.