When you've lost attraction and feelings to your SO, but you don't bother to
work it out because you know
the relationship wouldn't have lasted anyways. So you just end up waiting around in the relationship until you finally find the most
convenient time to break up, whether that be because of working or housing situation, etc.
Friend: You don't seen
affected by your
breakup
Friend 2: Yea, I was done checked out that relationship months before I broke up with him/her
Friend: Hey, did you get to enjoy the hotel pool on your last day?
Friend 2: Nah, didn't
bother, I was done checked out before the pool even opened