Big Dick Energy is the energy exuded by someone who knows exactly what they have to offer, and doesn't need to prove a thing to anybody about it. A person with a big dick does not feel the need to tell people about it, nor do they display any need to overcompensate. People who shout their own praises certainly do not have big dick energy.
Coined by one of Ariana
Grande's followers, in response to a comment where Grande alluded that her then-fiancé
Pete Davidson had a 10-inch dick. This came soon after their engagement, when many were confused by Grande's interest in an everyday-dude like Davidson. The term big dick energy was a perfect explanation for this unexpected pairing, and it took the Internet by storm.
Big dick energy has come into use by many feminists who are looking for the same type of acceptance that cocky male
fuck-boy types receive. Some girls just want to get dick and get paid, and why shouldn't this be okay? Although this is true and we support the elimination of the double standards displayed in gender inequality, this is not the proper usage of the term big dick energy.
Although there are some people who consider big dick energy to be associated with loud, boisterous,
testosterone-fueled energy, some may consider this to be actually
little dick energy, or a napoleon complex--- an intense need to overcompensate for the self-doubt that they feel internally. This is not to say that everyone who is loud and confident is overcompensating.
Friend 1: "That chick at the bar last night who was
twerking and screaming at guys, telling them that she knew she was beautiful, and that she didn't need them to tell her, had some serious big dick energy."
Friend 2: "You think so? I thought that outgoing, confident dude in the corner, who was
cracking jokes with a huge smile on his face all night, had some serious big dick energy. A lá
Pete Davidson."
Friend 1: "To each their own."
