A person who pretends to be your friend to get connected to other people you may know and then blows you off once they are connected to your friends. They are very smooth and everyone thinks that person is great until they are eventually
traded up by this person for another "better" social connection. They are social climbers and usually the social "leader" in the group. No one wants to reveal this actual
frenemy for fear of
backlash from the rest of the group. The frenemy will actually put you in a bad light to other people behind your back without making it seem like they are talking about you and actually
spill anything you may have told them to others without making it seems they are telling a secret. Be aware of the frenemy because they will have your friends
alienate you to be their friend. They are fake and although you may be a smart one to recognize them, others may not and
exude praise upon them until they've been
tricked by the frenemy.
Susan just told me that
Vera made her sad by yelling at her for no reason. Susan said all she tried to do was tell Vera that she was wrong about changing her plans to go shopping. Do you think Susan may be
Vera's frenemy? Vera hasn't said anything about the argument at all until I spoke with Vera and she stated that she tried to politely inform Susan that she was not up to go shopping without giving details about a personal situation and Susan just kept at her until she blew up. Yet Susan has told the whole group about the
fiasco and everyone feels bad for Susan.