Define Pick Me Meaning

Pick Me
the term “pick me” is a term used to refer to people who feed into narratives that are personally oppressive to them in an attempt to gain the approval, attention and/or validation of their oppressor. an example of this is a woman who puts down other women and feeds into misogynistic stereotypes in order to seem more appealing to sexist men in hopes of gaining their approval.

1. Becky always makes sexist jokes, makes fun of and shames rape victims, and shames other women when she’s around groups of men. Every time she’s around a guy- especially when she knows for sure he’s sexist- she will call other women dishwashers & go out of her way to put down the women around them with insults based in misogyny. She’s such a “pick me.
By Lorna
Pick Me
A person who is trying to get a valid attention of the opposite gender + an attention seeker

Pick me boy: I really think that boys suck I mean all they think is about sex, I mean I am a boy but sometimes I hate being a boy sometimes I wish that I am a girl.
Not a pick me boy: Boy shut yo pick me ass up
By Krysta
Pick Me
a pick me is a person who says unusual or outrageous statements for the validation of a race,gender,or other people.

A male pick me would say“If you paint your nails that’s so gay” looking for validation from his friends.
By Dulciana
Pick Me
A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me

Pick me: If a man cheats on you, it's probably because you your fault. Be feminine! Make him food! Clean his ass hole!

Slightly rational person: Shut up psycho
By Audra
Pick Me
A "thot" of sorts...someone (mostly a female) who craves male validation; who craves the attention of all the boys in a 100-mile radius.

NOT a girl who has a different opinion than you or agrees with something that a guy says, that you don't agree with.

just because a girl isn't a feminist, or belives in men's rights, doesn't make her a "pick me" girl :)
By Myrtice
Pick Me
a type person that says something just for attention either negative or positive

she is such a pick me
By Bonita
Pick Me

gosh did you see that pick me?? must be jakub
By Ida
Pick Me
A pick me is a woman that is willing to do anything for male approval. She will embarrass or throw other women under the bus to achieve this goal. The unfortunate thing about a pick me is usually the men they are trying to seek approval from are of poor quality and treat women badly, leaving little real benefit for the pick me.

Pick me: If a man cheats on you, it's probably because you your fault. Be feminine! Make him food! Clean his ass hole!

Rational person: Shut up psycho
By Karole
Pick Me
1. A person who begs for the attention, acceptance and approval of a certain group in different things they say. In most case, it's to attain the attention, acceptance and approval of the opposite sex.

2. Someone who enjoys & finds empowerment in doing things that make their significant other happy.

By Orly
Pick-me
men and women, who say and do stuff, to seek validation from the opposite gender, via putting their own gender down.

Amanda just slut-shamed me in front of the guy I like”.. “ugh she’s such a pick-me
By Valene