The mis-labeling of sincere devotion between a man and a woman as some sort of failure on the part (typically) of the man. This mis-labeling isn't applied by any sort of "lover" grade male; rather, the
labler is usually a misogynist frat-boy
hedonist incapable of rubbing two higher-level brain cells together longer than the time taken to
hit the bong or crush a beer can on his head. Mislabeling based on an inability to comprehend that men and women can have long-term, spiritually fulfilling relationships beyond the more obvious physical calisthetics...and that a man who puts the hapiness and joy of his woman above his own hapiness is the essence of successful relationships, NOT a failure. Obviously, when a woman reciprocates in kind, the result is the pinnacle of human hapiness and spiritual
fulfillment.
Frat boy: Me wake up on floor in puddle of own vomit. Me only f*ck
drunk ho's at party....hmm...that guy happy with woman, say he LOVE woman...he WHIPPED I bet.
Evolved human: did you hear that? it sounded like a pre-humanoid
predecessor, giving off a mating call for
antelope..!
